Dating Questions

Why are girls into "bad boys"?

It's thrilling to be with a bad boy.  The leather jacket, cool shades, motorcycle, the atittude. . . It's a turn on.  Some girls do it because they want to "change them". Turn a bad boy into devoted, in-love boyfriend.  But usually bad boys are players.  So if you're the best guy friend type who can't seem to get the girl? No worries. It's really just a phase we, girls, go through.  When it's really time to get down to business--finding a decent guy who loves you for you--guys like you are #1 pick. 
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If I'm dating a "bad boy" what should I be careful of?

Falling in love. These guys are experts at charming and swooning women, just so they can *cough*you know*cough*.  Remember: it's not a relationship so keep your mind from thinking it'll become one because chances are, it won't.  We aren't in a novel, ladies, it's reality, let's get real.  Keep your smarts on, don't drink to much (if you do it will lead to your downfall), and REMEMBER: he's going to want to make you think he's falling for you so he'll say pretty things and junk like that.  Don't fall for it.  We are women! And we are not toys that you can play with and then throw away when you're bored with it! Good luck!
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How much makeup should I wear during a date?

Not a lot.  Keep it natural or at least minimal.  Guys hate it when girls wear tons of makeup.  They say that it makes you look like a "racoon" or "a beaten up bimbo".  So in other words, don't look trashy, big turn off.
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Should I or should I not kiss on the first date?

I say, that's up to you.  Are you comfortable with it? Do you want to kiss your date? Did you like your date that much to kiss them?  Many people do the Second Date Rule: if you go out with the same person a second time you may kiss them.  Do what ever you're comfortable with, but I suggest no French kissing on the first date.  That's just weird. . .
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How old should you be to start dating?

I say 15-16 yrs. old.  But most people start at 12-13 yrs old.  To me that's really dumb.  Who wants that kind of pressure when your that young?  *smirk* Of course, depending on how old you are, it's up to your parents what age at which you should be dating. . .
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What if someone asks you if you want to go on a date and you say yes, but then your crush, asks you if you want to go out and you want to say yes but are unsure. . What should you do?

I'd follow the "first come, first serve" rule.  Fate is fate.  I say, tell your crush that you were already asked. Go out with the first guy/girl.  If that date doesn't work out, the next time you see your crush, strike up a conversation with them and somehow bring up that it didn't work out with your other date and ask if they'd like to still go out.
But you never know, you might like the first person more than your crush. . .
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Okay, what if someone asks you out, but you say you'll think about it, and then, your crush asks you out? What do you do?

Classic.
Well, do you like the first person who asked you out? Sounds like if you said "I'll think about" means you don't want to at all.  Oh, boy. Okay, 2 choices here:
1. Say yes to one of them, but break the other person's heart in doing so.  But when rejecting them, BE HONEST, if they find out you lied to them your only going to make it worse.
2. Say no to both and hope for the best. No one gets hurt too bad. Plus, you won't have a bad conscience on your date if you picked choice #1.

I say go with #2, no matter how much you don't want to do it...
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How do you know if the person your dating is into you?

If they're acting nervous.  Keep messing up, clumsy.  They could be making up cheesy jokes to make you laugh.  A girl would have a hard time looking you in the eye if you likes you (either that or she's mad at you!).  A guy will want to hold your hand and want to make you smile.  Stuttering is a good sign. :) 
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How do I know if I'm dating the wrong person?

*Scratches head* Uh, it really depends on your "type".  If you're getting a bad feeling in the pit of your stomach, that's a sign that the date might not go to well.  However, when dating, please, keep an open mind.  Focus on personality and not just looks.
I'm not the best at decifering this type of dating problem so click here for 8 signs that you're dating the wrong person.
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~All-Cat