Greatest Fear

"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one." Elbert Hubbard

Ah, so I decided I'm doing quotes at the beginning of each post.  Hope you like them! ;)

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I'm doing another list! 

Things That I'm Interested In

- (another) curling iron  1 1/4 inch
- Covergirl Smoky Shadow Blast
- Converse shoes
- Seeing a movie
- Hanging wit my homies
- becoming a better writer

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My greatest fear is failure.

I never like to disappoint.  I'm always willing to say yes, for the right reasons, of course.  Then sometimes, I say something that's I'm not proud of, and I get so upset with myself. 

I'm guessing, that I'm not the only one who does this.

To all who do this: your not alone! Why don't we try not to bring ourselves down?

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Wow! If you have make-up brushes look at this!

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Speaking of beauty, tonight I tried something new with my hair.

I took some mousse (a little over a quarter size) and ran it through my damp hair.

Then I french braided my hair and now I'm letting it dry (sleep on most likely, it takes forever to get my hair dry).

I'm going to see how it turns out.  I like to experiment with my hair.  You can try this too if you want!



~Ally-Cat



" The odds of hitting your target go up dramatically when you aim at it."



Mal Pancoast
 

Say Hey

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away."

 
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A couple things that shall be mentioned:

 

1. Blogger is having issues with commenting on my site sooo if you'd like to say something to me then sign into my Guest Book (it's in the slot where the Recent Comments was at).  (You don't have to put your email and location, just make something up; that's what I did.)
2. I have my first advice post of the week up. So go check that out. 
3. I finally bought "Bad Romance" by Lady Gaga after hearing it on the radio and that the dance; I got hooked.

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What I Heart has lots of lists.  One on almost every post.  This inspired me to make a list of my own:


THINGS THAT I LOVE!

• Family
• Friends
• My Chichuahua
• Food
• books
• music
• the morning
• evening
• humor
• Glee
• Chuck
• Henry Cavill
• That's What She Said
•  (Last but not least) my followers!

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I really like inspirational music and quotes.  Sara Bareilles has great inspirational music and Black Eyed Peas' new song Where Is The Love?  is very well written. 

What inspires you?

~Ally-Cat


"If you want to be happy, be."



Leo Tolstoy

Advice: Is It Okay To Keep Personal Secrets From Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

It depends on the type of secret and how personal it maybe. Also, you should evaluate your relationship and guy/girl and see if they are ready to hear these secrets. 

 Please answer these questions in your head:

1. Is the secret (or secrets) really embarassing or very personal--something that your not proud of at all
2. How well do you know your boyfriend/girlfriend? How long have you dated?
3. Do I trust them enough to tell them?

So if your answers were: no/yes, I know them very well (almost like twins), a long time (about a year or 2), and yes then it might be a good idea to tell them, no matter what kind of secret it is, so they don't feel mistrusted.  Honesty is the best play in a relationship; all you have to do is time it right.  Too soon your guy/girl will feel like the relationship is moving to fast or it could scare them off, but do it too late and they'll wonder why you didn't tell them earlier and second-guess your trust towards them. 
It will make you feel a whole lot better if you let it off your chest, especially to someone you care about and known for so long,  instead of pondering whether or not they'll still love you afterwards.  If in the end, they decide that this secret is something they want to break up upon then they weren't worth your time.

If your answers were: yes, not very well, about a couple of weeks or less, and not very well then keep it to yourself.  You don't want to tell all your deepest, darkest secrets and then find the relationship's ended and some of those secrets are being told to everyone.  Wait until your relationship has gone through about a year.  Then it might be a good time to admitt some of those secrets. 


~Ally-Cat

Hey Everyone!

(Yeah, I know, such an original title!)

Sorry for the last 2 post being uh, depressing?  Is that the right word?

Anyways, thanks for still sticking with me here.

This is a bit random, but I have a lot of labels.  I would display them, but they are just too many to be shown.  I guess I just love labels.

Speaking of displays, yes, I changed the background again.  It's almost an obsession.  Everytime I look at my blog I'm just iching to change it up again.  I'm soo crazy! 

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I finished reading all the updates for The One manga I've been reading.  I love it.  It's so deep.  It's funny at times, and then it's serious another.

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Alright, I'm starting something new.  I'm going to make 1 advice post every week or so, just to keep my creative writing going.

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At night, I do a lot of reflecting.  Mostly about my day and habits, goals, etc.  I figured out that I'm more of  a poet that an author.  I'm not like Hannah, who has an extraordinary vocabulary.  Plus she has the "drive" to strive. (Gosh, I just rhymed!)  There's so much I need to work on on myself.  And, truely, it pains me to write this, but I'm soo lazy it's not even funny.  I procrastinate waaay too much. Whoa! I can't believe I just admitted to that. 
So, basically I need to get on with life.  I need a good push.  I feel like I can't do it.  It's like when you were a child, and you're on a swing and you just can't reach to ground to get yourself going; all you need is a good push from someone from behind. *sigh*

I need to figure this out.



~Ally-Cat